6 ways to tell if your ex wants you back - Obanaija Romance

This is how to tell if your ex wants you back, 

To put it frankly, breakups suck. They leave us feeling sad, hopeless, and frustrated about the time we have wasted with the other person. But, as awful as they may be, breakups do hold one secret that not everyone seems to know about, yes they aren't final. So watch out for these signs/ 

1. Your ex contacts you for useless reasons.

Believe me people who break up, and want that breakup to remain intact, do not contact their exes. In fact, they do the total opposite: they avoid them at all costs. Some may even go as far as to change their phone number or email address. But, when an ex does contact you, it's likely they are attempting to reopen the lines of communication. This is particularly true if the reasons they are contacting you are particularly lame: they want to know if you are ok, they want to ask for a favour etc.

2. Your ex asks about you.

Unless the end of the relationship was a knockdown, drag out, call the cops and have them escort you from the premises with threats of tear gas breakup, most people like to know that their ex will be okay. Asking about you once or twice is natural, but asking about you repeatedly hints at feelings still existing. Thus, if your ex goes out of their way to see how you are — asking your friends, your relatives, or yourself —they might be ruing calling it quits.

3. Your ex runs into you.

Exes are going to run into each other, especially if they live in the same neighborhood or share the same social circle. But, if you find that your ex is running into you a ridiculous amount of times —you see them at the grocery store, at your tai chi class, at the library, in your bedroom closet — the "funny seeing you here" may as well be translated into "I'm here because I knew you'd be."

4. Your ex behaves like they used to.

Most relationships have a honeymoon phase, the beginning when everything is raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens. This is the phase when you can't keep your hands off each other and go out of your way to do nice things for each other. To MTV it up, it's the phase right before people stop being polite and start getting real. If you find that your ex has reverted back to this phase — they become more romantic, they look for reasons to touch you, they act like they did when you first met — they most likely want a second chance.

5. Your ex makes a point to change.

There is a reason your relationship ended. It probably wasn't your ex’s entire fault or your entire fault. But, your ex can only fix whatever role was theirs. So, if they begin working on themselves, fixing whatever flaw or trait they possessed that helped contribute to your relationship's demise, there is likely a reason behind their actions.

6. Your ex tells you.

It goes without saying: the surest way to know if your ex wants you back is simple. They tell you.