Over the years I have heard this a lot and I have tried to understand the situation. The truth is, no lady likes a stereotype guy.
It is so common to find guys getting the monosyllabic response over instant messages because they always say the wrong things.
Before you attack to bite let me finish.
It is no longer news that we meet more people online today than we meet in person. A Lot of guys call it "forming" for others it's just "annoying attitude by ladies" but I say, know what to say and you can get the best out of a conversation.
How would you expect a lady you are chatting with to take you serious when the 1st time u chat her up all you can say is:
1. Who is dis
That's a no no......
I know you'll say a lot of ladies do that but it's a no no for a guy for Christ sake she isn't going to wanna listen to you. If she's not giving out her name, don't take it the hard way. Some ladies prefer to be anonymous till they feel comfortable so just give it time.
2. Don't start up a conversation by asking " what do you do".
For heaven's sake, you wanna make friends not a business partner.
3. You only just met her online and you are already asking what are parents do for a living
haba now......
4. If you want her to totally loose interest please ask what her best food is or her hubby.... menh that's so 19th century.
5. If you are interested in her beyond friendship please never ask " what kindda guys she likes"
That's a signal for "complex"
There are lots of reasons ladies pay little or no attention to a guy the first time they chat but for the sake of a healthy conversation it's better to go with the flow. The first conversation should not always be an interview trust me lots of ladies hate that.
Best form of conversation:
Boy: hey what's up?
Girl: who are you?
Boy: got your number/ pin from......
Girl: k.... what do you want?
Boy: just wanna be friends if you don't mind..
Girl: K
Boy: my name is...... how are you doing and how is your day turning out? hope you are not busy and can chat...
No girl will ever turn down such polite approach as against the typical.....
Boy: hi
Girl: hi
Boy: can I meet you?
What do you do for a living?
Where are you based?......
It is so common to find guys getting the monosyllabic response over instant messages because they always say the wrong things.
Before you attack to bite let me finish.
It is no longer news that we meet more people online today than we meet in person. A Lot of guys call it "forming" for others it's just "annoying attitude by ladies" but I say, know what to say and you can get the best out of a conversation.
How would you expect a lady you are chatting with to take you serious when the 1st time u chat her up all you can say is:
1. Who is dis
That's a no no......I know you'll say a lot of ladies do that but it's a no no for a guy for Christ sake she isn't going to wanna listen to you. If she's not giving out her name, don't take it the hard way. Some ladies prefer to be anonymous till they feel comfortable so just give it time.
2. Don't start up a conversation by asking " what do you do".
For heaven's sake, you wanna make friends not a business partner.
3. You only just met her online and you are already asking what are parents do for a living
haba now...... 4. If you want her to totally loose interest please ask what her best food is or her hubby.... menh that's so 19th century.
5. If you are interested in her beyond friendship please never ask " what kindda guys she likes"
That's a signal for "complex"
There are lots of reasons ladies pay little or no attention to a guy the first time they chat but for the sake of a healthy conversation it's better to go with the flow. The first conversation should not always be an interview trust me lots of ladies hate that.
Best form of conversation:
Boy: hey what's up?
Girl: who are you?
Boy: got your number/ pin from......
Girl: k.... what do you want?
Boy: just wanna be friends if you don't mind..
Girl: K
Boy: my name is...... how are you doing and how is your day turning out? hope you are not busy and can chat...
No girl will ever turn down such polite approach as against the typical.....
Boy: hi
Girl: hi
Boy: can I meet you?
What do you do for a living?
Where are you based?......
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